The world is full of word games. Even our lives in the world can be one big word game. Though we may have the 1st Amendment and are technically free to speak, there are all kinds of societal rules governing what is appropriate and inappropriate for any given situation.
Political correctness, which is a societal judgment of which words are appropriate to use to describe people, professions, or things, has been a divisive issue. Should we make an effort not to offend people when we speak, or have these restrictions trampled our rights of free speech? This is a question you have to answer for yourself. For me personally, I have no problem with sexist, racist, and other terms used to demean people being frowned upon. You're technically still free to say them, as you should be, but the shift has made some areas of civil discourse more, well, civilized. Of course, from the way the political arena looks as of late, people are still bashing each other just as thoroughly as ever. Politicians are adept at using word play, a type of word game, to spin the argument against their opponent and paint themselves in a more favorable light. Gotta love rhetoric. I discussed this once in a previous post, so I won't go into too much detail about that here.
I can think of a couple high profile examples of language controversy. Less than a month ago, actress Gwyneth Paltrow stirred up controversy when she tweeted a picture of Kanye West, Jay-Z, and herself. In her description, she used the "N" word. I don't think I need to spell it out for all of you to know what I mean by that. And as much as I enjoy controversy, I don't want to be accused of being racist. I will, however, offer my take on the situation. She was tweeting the name of the song that they were singing at the time. Saying a word offensively is one thing. However, since she was quoting the name of the song, why should anyone be angry? The use of these offensive terms is generally accepted in music and novels. After all, it can often be used as political commentary, and is also used as a form of empowerment. As for novels, how can you write a historical piece focused on racism in America without using such a term? It would certainly be difficult. I think we sometimes need to look at the intended meaning behind the use of a typically offensive word before we get angry.
Then, even more recently, Michigan Representative Lisa Brown was silenced after saying the dreaded "V" word, which is the clinical term for a part of the female body, during an abortion debate. Apparently using the name of a body part offended several people in the assembly, though I'm kind of stunned as to why. Well, I'm actually not stunned. It's a body part that can be used for sexual purposes, so I guess it's considered "offensive by association." Now, I'm not going to go into her subsequent actions and whether they were appropriate or not (that is a whole new can of worms and would dominate the rest of this post). You can read more HERE and decide for yourselves. However, I will say this. She said the actual name of a body part that half the people in this country have. I can think of several slang terms she could have used that would have been far more inflammatory and would have justified action against her. However, she used the clinical term of a body part that is inevitably involved in an abortion debate. Maybe people need to get over it. It's a word we had to say aloud in a high school anatomy class, for crying out loud. These were full grown adults who were complaining. Something seems off there. And I know I didn't write out the "V" word either, which makes me seem hypocritical, but I think the absurdity of me not saying it helps me make my point.
Anyway, the point I'm trying to make in all this ranting is that language comes with all sorts of rules, both written and unwritten. Language belongs to society and is constantly under construction. It's political, it's tricky, and malleable. Anyone who understands it well enough can use it to make any point they want. It's all about the words you use. The world is one large word game.
I want to say now that I never intended to offend anyone with the content of this long rant. I was trying to make some serious points and offer my own opinions. Think what you will of what I believe. For any of you who I may have offended and still decided to stick with it this far, or for any of you who simply love word games, here's a little fun for you. Follow the links to play some free, and fun, word games. These sites have a ton to choose from. Or just do your own search for "word games." If you can't find anything to your liking from that long list of results, well, then I certainly can't help you.
http://www.wordgames.com/
http://www.eastoftheweb.com/games/
http://www.merriam-webster.com/game/index.htm
Have a good day everyone!
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Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
A Story is a Puzzle
I swear, I cannot just sit down and write a story straight
through from start to finish. When I have
an idea for a story I want to tell, I see it in segments. Little moments in time play out in my head,
and I learn about who my characters are by seeing how they react to a certain
critical moment. From there, with this
knowledge, I wonder about who they are and how they came to be that
person. What life events shaped
them? Then more scenes spring up in my
head like weeds, often growing out of control.
I have to prune them back, shape them so that I have a chance of
managing them.
For me, writing is like putting together the disjointed
pieces of a puzzle, but the pieces don’t quite fit when I put them on the
table. I have to arrange them in a way I
think looks right, then sand the edges until I can get them to fit together. And even then, characters and situations in the fragmented narrative resist alteration. Somehow, from me they have gained an identity and momentum all their own, and though I strive for some kind of control, I soon realize that I have lost it and merely need to hold on for the ride.
Why can’t this be easy?
I have so many ideas I don’t know where to start, but it’s a long way
from a mess of a rough draft scribbled in my notebook (and yes, weird as it is,
I write my first drafts out by hand in a well-worn notebook)to a finished product. And like most writers, no matter what I do
and how much I revise, I always feel like it isn’t ever quite right. I guess it's a reality I just need to get used to.
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